Victorian Lives Matter

“Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.”

Eliane,

I’m sorry you’re sad, my friend. There’s no question Hindley had it rough and, like Michael Jackson, was gone too soon. If we want to dwell in bleakness momentarily, Hindley got quite a few more years than Linton, who died at the unripe age of 17. Catherine and Frances gave up the ghost at 18. (Well Frances did anyway.) By these standards, Isabella, captured longevity; she lived until she was 31. This is a classic case of literature mirroring real life. Tragically, Emily Bronte died at age 30, Anne at 29, and Charlotte didn’t make it to her 39th birthday—tuberculosis robbed each of them of so many years. (Imagine the classics that were buried alongside those sisters. Big Heavy Sigh.)

Why do I feel compelled to ask if it’s important to read sad stories? What do we learn from the sobering stuff? Awareness is the first answer that comes to mind. (Victorian Lives Matter.) I’m especially passionate about gender ideology, I know you are too—we need to understand unjust cultural requirements and unfair expectations for women. We need to learn from the past in order to move forward and stay forward. In the light. Empathy is another important answer to the question why should we read sobering stories? Walk a mile in another girl’s shoes, right? I felt for young Catherine. What a horrible web she got caught in. And I wanted to cry out a warning sound to insecure Isabella.

But as usual, I’ve meandered from the pressing question that spans our letters: Why is Heathcliff considered heroic when he’s deplorable??? The only way to shed good light on this literary conundrum requires a close look at what constitutes a Byronic hero. You’ll remember Lord Byron. His fictional (potentially autobiographical) character Childe Harold was the first to represent an extreme variation of the Romantic hero archetype. Like the Romantic hero, the Byronic hero is a complex person who often kicks against societal pricks. Norms are not for them. Of course, it won’t surprise you that this type of character is psychologically damaged—a tortured soul essentially. And even when an anti-hero behaves benevolently, those acts are tainted by his brooding, dark nature. Here’s the kicker: this type of Byronic guy is typically charismatic, good looking, and a passionate/sensual man—this draws star-crossed females to him. Say what??? Come again, Byron. Why would a woman be attracted to an arrogant, cunning, surly man who swings between extreme states of emotion?

For the same reason we like Hamlet, Mr. Rochester, Jay Gatsby, Dorian Gray, and arguably, Mr. Darcy. They may be fighters, but let’s be honest—their passion makes them serious lovers as well. (It’s not necessarily a juxtaposition.) Let me just put it down in print, once and for all. Heathcliff is a somewhat redeeming character because of his ardent and undying love for Catherine. His heart is moored to hers. It is something to behold, even if it is sometimes crazy.

You can read plenty online about romantic love in Wuthering Heights. I’m running out of blog space, so I will wrap-up with this fact: the love relationship between Heathcliff and Catherine has become an archetype. Their Devotion? Admiration? Obsession?  was obviously significant. Readers must (if only subconsciously) be drawn to the notion of a passionate longing to be whole—to give oneself unreservedly to another—to gain a oneness or whole self or sense of identity back. No wonder Catherine exclaims, “I am Heathcliff!” Do you, Eliane Pohl, think they redefine love for the reader? Their intense emotional passion transcends mortality to forge something that feels seriously supernatural. I love big sis Charlotte’s observation of WH: “In its storm-heated and electrical atmosphere, we seem at times to breathe lightening.” And whether we want to admit it or not, that lightening is supplied by none other than Heathcliff and Catherine. Here’s my advice: focus on the lightening more than the storm.

I hate to end this post. It makes me sad. I’ve extracted so much more from Bronte’s cult classic via virtual book club than I would have in a plastic 29-inch tablet arm desk among small high school walls. Please say we can do this again. Soon. Please, I beg you. Let me leave you with one final question to ponder: Are Soulmates Real?

I happily (and anxiously) await your response!

Tracky 

p.s. For more on the features of a Byronic Hero, here’s an interesting read.

No Respecter of Persons

“Nothing’s more powerful than the morphine molecule, and once it has its hooks in you, nothing matters more. Not love. Not family. Not sex. Not shelter.” – Dopesick

Alright, my friends. It’s time to get real here—literally. Here’s a non-fiction must-read coming your way. Before diving in, I do want to sound the warning horn for those who may have sensitivities towards illicit drugs and/or drug abuse.

It’s estimated that 128 people die every day from an opioid overdose (thanks, CDC), which amounts to over 67,000 people needlessly dying each year. Opioid addictions are no respecter of persons. That’s what makes them so deadly – take the drug one time and you can be hooked for life.

Beth Macy’s stunning book, Dopesick: Dealers, Doctors and the Drug Company That Addicted America exposes the shocking truth behind opioids and how the American epidemic unfolded in the late 1990s and early 2000s. As an author and former investigative journalist, her work in the Appalachian areas of West Virginia and Virginia reveals appalling facts and stories, beginning with the creation and rise of opioids at the hands of Purdue Pharma (insert the collective boos the TV networks plug into sports games during COVID). Macy’s book encompasses accounts from hundreds of addicts, family members, doctors, rehabilitation specialists and more as she unravels the details behind this modern-day plague and how victims and their families have struggled for years to overcome the damages caused by the company’s ignorance and greed. 

For me, the brilliance of this book comes from the humanizing of an otherwise abstract concept. Macy’s work with the surviving family members is truly heart-wrenching as they recount their experience with the attempts and failures that come along the road to recovery. In addition to the emotional appeal of the story, many share their experience not only with the past, but their futures—some not only lost family members to death and drug cults, but incurred massive debts from legal costs, medical bills and failed rehab treatments. I give the book a solid 4.5 out of 5 stars.

I’m sure many of you know of or have heard the stories about someone being addicted to heroin or opioids, some being closer to home than others. I have a cousin who has been in and out of jail for the past 15 years, struggling to stay away from heroin. As someone who has never been interested in drugs—I chalk it up to good parenting and a high school soccer coach who threatened to kick us off the team if we were caught within a “sniff” of drugs—it’s hard for me to fathom how people can get so lured into opioids and illicit drugs. However, Macy’s book was the first time I was able to comprehend a smidgen of what these addicts go through and how hard it truly is to stay away from opioids. As one coal miner from Grundy, Virginia told his doctor, “It became my God.”

Bonus: For those who are devout to the docs, Macy has a long-form story on Audible about one of the addicts and her family’s journey to find her and bring her home called Dopesick: Finding Tess. If you’re left craving more (like me), this may be a good place to start.

Guest Post by Michelle

'Cause this is Thriller, Thriller Time...

I’ve had thrillers on the brain lately. Last week marked 11 years since Michael Jackson died, so naturally I’ve been listening to the album “where every song was a killer.” Recently, my sis and I followed 80 West from Connecticut to Utah—we did some first-rate yackety-yakking, interspersed with listening to the talented Jane Harper. The Dry is definitely an awesome whodunit (Five star). Oh, and I may or may not have binge-watched Defending Jacob, a legal thriller that caught my eye. Because Chris Evans.

I’m a suspense junkie as of late. Not surprisingly, I checked out Harlen Coben’s new release The Boy From the Woods. (Never read a Coben before.) When a teen named Naomi Pine goes missing, Wilde (the boy, now man, from the woods and an outcast in his own right) sets out to not only get answers but to find the young girl. Is Naomi’s disappearance somehow related to the presidential aspirations of a Senator named Rusty Eggers? You’ll have to read to find out. This book had mystery, plot twists, some political intrigue, and great characters (especially Wilde and Hester Crimstein). It definitely held my attention; however, there were things left unsaid, big things. This was a good read, but it didn’t come close to The Dry or The King of Pop, or Defending Jacob for that matter. Take it to the beach or listen on a long drive, you’ll definitely be satisfied. For what’s it’s worth, the reviews I’ve since read suggest this isn’t Coben’s best.

Posted by Tracy

A Rattlingly Good Story

“With age comes wisdom, but sometimes age comes alone.” – Oscar Wilde

 If I didn’t know better, I’d think Dorian Gray’s mastermind got an advanced reader copy of Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows over 200 years ago. Surely, Wilde would have been pleased: sexuality, drama, and mysterious deaths?!!?

Set in present-day London, Balli Kaur Jaswal puts a unique spin on the popular East-meets-West novel. Nikki left her parent’s home in the Indian neighborhood of Southall for modern city life. The big city proved rough after Nikki dropped out of law school and lost some of her shifts at the bar. Money was tight. On top of it all, her older sister agreed to participate in the Indian tradition of arranged marriage. Nikki felt wholly devastated. After reluctantly agreeing to post her sister’s profile on the marriage board at a large Sikh church, Nikki comes across a Help Wanted ad to teach creative writing to women from the congregation. Nikki is passionate about storytelling and empowering women, so this job seems to be the perfect fit.

During the first class, Nikki’s shocked to find she’s been duped into teaching English to Sikh widows. The widows received a special surprise on Day One when they stumbled upon a book of erotic stories Nikki purchased (as a joke) for her marriage-seeking sister. Taking their lead from literature (and counter to their Sikh culture), the women begin to record their fantasies—ones they’ve kept close to the chest (so to speak) for too long.  

 As the women grow closer through their stories, more is shared beyond salacious fantasies and vegetable descriptors (I kid you not) of the perceived prudent widows. The class eventually realizes that there’s more than meets the eye to a local woman’s suicide. (Move over Alexander McCall Smith, there’s a new No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency!)  The widows underestimate everything that comes with exposing controversial details to a conservative church community.

If you read Jaswal’s book title and balked a bit, I wouldn’t be surprised.  You might be shocked to learn that my 56-year-old mother recommended the book to me. Rarely have I read a book that has made me consistently laugh and gasp throughout its entirety. It’s good for the gut. Deborah Maggoch, author of The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, had this to say: “I loved this novel—it’s so big-hearted and earthy and funny. Best of all, it turns many preconceptions upside down, and opens up a world that so many of us have only glimpsed. A rattlingly good story.”

P.S. Be warned, there is some sexual content, and some of the descriptions are a bit graphic. But I never felt as though the sexuality took away from the story’s message about stereotypes and suppression. As an added bonus, it may just help you answer the age-old question on everyone’s mind: is it similar to an eggplant or cucumber? #TeamEggplant

Guest Post by Michelle